Ruben Garza JR.-190487

WHAT IS OF MORE IMPORTANCE?

Our convictions convict us.

Why am I still single?… I am still single because at least 15 years ago I convicted myself by falling out of love with my position in life. I have been in this position for over 25 years where I made a pivot to find a strength that became a solid foundation for growth.

In December 1999, I was arrested. Since then I haven’t been able to work at a job site that could financially provide for my FAMILY and my responsibilities. I was raised to earn. To work hard. I was never raised to beg or to be a burden on anyone.

I refused to be a dependent, an adult that didn’t work, or an adult who begs for people to help them financially, so I pivoted to seeking only friendships where I could be there for my friends… emotionally and physically but not financially.

I have been teaching myself to become a Creative Writer and I study Business Concepts. I seek to become financially successful in each career.

I had been in a loving relationship but my seen weak position of no income compromised me as an unequal to my life partner and our convictions. I convicted myself for not able to support her future.

However, she is now happily with a significant other and was able to give birth to a healthy child. A child I wouldn’t of been able to help her create.

Good for her! She deserved to be Happy. Not stuck in a relationship, where she couldn’t have children or I couldn’t be in her bed.

I live a sober lifestyle. I do what I can to take care of myself, where I don’t need any prescription meds. I exercise daily.

I have many interests in People, movies and music. I enjoy good People, movies, TV shows and Documentaries. I don’t care for any song that has the word n**ga in it.

A friend stated, I need to get on this dating website. I have the mentality of whatever happens happens, so he is helping me to meet you. I HOPE you will be okay with that because you do deserve to meet someone who benefits your future.

I am sorry that I can’t look at your profile on this website (if you are on this website), in order to introduce myself – first, since I do not have internet access.

I HOPE an opportunity presents itself, so we can start an open ended conversation educating each other to what we see or hear. We can watch movies and TV together.

Throughout the years, I have studied relationships where none are equal to each other other than love being seen and shown emotionally and physically paralleling a friendship where benefits will create our understandings.

An Open Relationship opened my eyes to its characteristics of Individual. We can have responsibilities to each other and to ourselves, where our life parallels each other as a bond of friendship with benefits.

I can provide you with my strengths of a friendship being a rock in your life and its your choice of who you need in your life that benefits you.

To be your Man or a Friend will be an earned Potential. To be your forever is unknown but also unexpected. Your reputation of your convictions will be a guilty pleasure.

We can be each other’s guilty pleasure. Your needs are important. We are of importance. Friends are like a rock of importance.

I can call you or write you, so we can continue our communication. I can learn about your future needs, your best interests and your convictions that convict you.

We will become one creating TEAM YOU, when your future is compromised by the unexpected challenges that seeks to weaken you.

Although, I have characteristic flaws of no release date and no weekly earned income that can help sustain a growing FAMILY, I can be there for you (and your FAMILY) mentally and physically through phone calls, letters and digital texts. Visits can become available depending on your convictions.

If you only see flaws, you are not seeing… WHAT IS OF MORE IMPORTANCE?

Respectfully

Ruben Garza Jr #190487
Po Box 3500 Death Row
Aspc – Eyman Browning
Florence, AZ 85132
USA

Updated: March 24, 2025… Future Relationship Profile… Questions asked:

Basics:

1. My Age/DOB/Sign? 44 (March 26, 1980) Aries

2. My Body Type: Average

3. My Ethnicity: Hispanic

4. My Religion: Spiritual (All Religions)

5. My Song About Life: La Puerta Negra (English version)

6. Relationship I am looking For: Seeing who is out there. Ages: 21 to 81

7. My Education: Independence High School. Class of 1998

8. My Three important Characteristics: FAMILY, INTEGRITY, GROWTH

9. My Next Adventure: Seeking Life Partnerships

10. My Sexual Orientation: Straight

11. My Goal this 2025 year: Get Book(s) published

12. My Favorite FAMILY Tradition: Making Tamales

13. I am Connected to Faith when: Feeling connections

14. My Superpower in Friendship is: Being a Rock that listens. A Rock to help your growth. A Rock that strengthens you.

15. Workout/Exercise: Daily

16. Height: 5’11. Weight: 243. Eyes: Black. Hair: Bald

17. Drugs: Sober living. No prescribed meds… either

18. Born/Raised: Phoenix, Arizona

19. Do I have Children? Godchildren
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Questions… and Answers (1 to 150 characters)

1. At this time in my life I embraced my Love for… an education by learning subjects I don’t understand, so I can have a better communication and understanding of what I studied.

2. You know you are truly happy when… an action is done for you without asking. Its a feeling of earn and deserve. Its a feeling of strength, where a happiness exists without words.

3. My daily routine isn’t complete without… waking up! It is a blessing to wake up. A new adventure was planned for you to learn of the new day and to be you for others in your life.

4. I wish more People will donate to… the future of our children. Education and health is important. Kids need meals to eat at school and local farmers can help providing these ingredients.

5. What Movie or Book I wish I could see or read again for the first time?… My favorite Book as a child was: A Little Toot That Could. Two favorite Movies: Dances with Wolves and Legends of the Fall.

6. One thing I am working on improving… is my understandings of our life choices and their perseverance.

7. If I am feeling hurt I need to… move forward like water in a river. My future responsibilities need me to be at my best.

8. I recently changed my mind about… seeking relationships – not just friendships. 15 years ago, I stopped believing in finding love in a relationship. An Open Relationship can work.

9. I am trying to unlearn… my bleeding heart. I learned to say No, in order to look out for my own health and my own responsibilities.

10. Three ways I feel cared for… 1. FAMILY. 2. INTEGRITY. 3. ACTIONS.

11. After a bad day. You can find me… moving forward. I can be in many locations because time doesn’t stop. Tomorrow, I may have a new day of my responsibilities.

12. My unconventional date idea… will depend on who you are and what would you be willing to do, depending on your schedule, imagination and open-mindedness.

13. What I am not so sure about anymore?… The Criminal Justice System of rehabilitation is a government conspiracy. Prison sentences never match the crime seen or a rehabilitation seen.

14. Best Adjective that someone ever used to describe you?… Hardworking

15. If I can shadow someone for a day it will be… MSNBC’s The Profit

16. What will shock me in a good way about a new partner?… If they live parallel lives, as the women in my Short Stories.

17. A Song that instantly makes me Happy?… Tie: HERO By Mariah Carey. ANGEL By Sarah McLachlan. FINALLY HOME By Abby Ryder Fortston/Alex Roe. OLD FRIENDS By Chris Stapleton.

18. One problem I would like to solve in the world?… Ending Cancer

19. The Person(s) who knows the most about me?… My Sisters

20. When I am frustrated I usually… stop and refocus to move forward.

21. My Love Language is… Acts of Service.

22. Three ways I care for others… 1. Listening. 2. Seeking their understandings. 3. Looking out for their Best Interests.

23. Something I wish I could tell my 18 year old self?… Work harder, Earn your Future and FAMILY is #1.

24. My Secret Talent… being an undiscovered Creative Writer and a Conceptualist.

25. My go to Party Joke?… What did the shot of Tequila say to the Beer? I don’t shoot Blanks.

26. For me a good day isn’t complete without… HOPE!

27. Top 3 on the Bucket List:… 1. WIN/WIN PARTNERSHIPS. 2. UNIVERSAL BUSINESS CONSULTANT. 3. A RELEASE DATE

28. Never have I ever…. Got Married.

29. Almost grateful for… finding meaningful partnerships.

30. I am currently obsessed with… finding work!

31. The way to my heart is through… your actions.

32. If I made a Documentary it will be about… Succeeding Without Criminal Justice’s Rehabilitation.